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今天真是个倒霉的日子，碰到两件很不开心的事~~~~

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第一：下午去坐车，上车时人很多，我就排在队尾，没想到刚轮到我上时，车门一下子关上了，我的一半被夹在车上，车子就这样启动了。司机最后当然看见了我，我也上了车，可让人生气的是，司机连一声sorry也不说。还教训我说不应该在车门关上的时候上车。当时我被夹得很疼，加上俺英语说得不是很遛，气得说不出话来。

第二，晚上去倒垃圾，在过道上碰见一个印巴人，他跟我打招呼，我想大家都是邻居，就也跟他打了一下招呼，我们很简单的聊了两句，我往回走时，他说：nice to meet you. 跟着就伸出手跟我握手，没想到他使劲捏着我的手，还摸着我的手，我当时一下摔开了他的手，什么也没说就走了。可是我回到家越想越生气，越想越恶心。

不知各位JJMM有没有类似经历，碰到了应该怎么处理？

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枫下拾英 / 心情随笔 / 今天真是个倒霉的日子，碰到两件很不开心的事~~~~ -guest:; 2001-9-7 {642} (#193293@0)
第一：下午去坐车，上车时人很多，我就排在队尾，没想到刚轮到我上时，车门一下子关上了，我的一半被夹在车上，车子就这样启动了。司机最后当然看见了我，我也上了车，可让人生气的是，司机连一声sorry也不说。还教训我说不应该在车门关上的时候上车。当时我被夹得很疼，加上俺英语说得不是很遛，气得说不出话来。

第二，晚上去倒垃圾，在过道上碰见一个印巴人，他跟我打招呼，我想大家都是邻居，就也跟他打了一下招呼，我们很简单的聊了两句，我往回走时，他说：nice to meet you. 跟着就伸出手跟我握手，没想到他使劲捏着我的手，还摸着我的手，我当时一下摔开了他的手，什么也没说就走了。可是我回到家越想越生气，越想越恶心。

不知各位JJMM有没有类似经历，碰到了应该怎么处理？

两件事你处理的都很好。1、英语不流利，没法跟司机讲理，就只能算了。小事一庄。2、也许有些人以为那是礼貌，我觉得那种人有病。甩开他就对了，不用再多说什么，免得让他得意。 -rollor(Rollor); 2001-9-7 (#193324@0)

谢谢rollar, 我总觉得自己太懦弱了。 -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193335@0)

弱小不是缺点。自然选择的规律是适者生存，而不是强者生存。知道自己的弱点并善用之，最终你是胜利者。 -rollor(Rollor); 2001-9-7 (#193361@0)

学两句骂人的话，下次碰到这样的事情就大声的骂出来 :P -antmm(antmm); 2001-9-7 (#193327@0)

有什么比较精彩的骂人的话吗？最好能有针对性。而且我觉得别人没说什么难听的话，我开口骂人会不会显得粗鲁？ -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193344@0)

Foget it. keep yourself safety. It's most important! -lemondy(驯鹿); 2001-9-7 (#193347@0)
骂人的话不是专门学来的，除非你习惯骂人。不会骂人的人骂的很可能不合时宜。弱者的求生之道是以退为进，明哲保身。如果你没损失什么，就算了。如果你有损失，通过正式渠道解决。 -rollor(Rollor); 2001-9-7 (#193353@0)

是啊，不能什么都忍，到了这里，要当这是自己的国家，对让自己生气的事，要会complain，不要太nice -alexm(alex); 2001-9-7 (#193349@0)

Take it easy, friend. 生活本来就是有快乐，有烦恼，睡一觉，明天又是很好的蓝天了。 -birdswimming(feifei); 2001-9-7 {331} (#193337@0)
如果我是你，在上车后，我会告诉司机“You should be careful next time. I was getting hurt”. 如果他态度还好，就算了. 如果态度不好，就告诉他，“I was hurt! You should apologize, otherwise, I'll complain you.”

第二件事，如果你认为已经到了伤害的地步，直接告诉他，“Stop. I don't like that.”

Again, be a happy girl. Bless you.

still too civilized -guest:; 2001-9-7 (#193358@0)
Thank you. Your suggestion is very good. Anyway, tomorrow will be a new day. : ) -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193403@0)

BTW, if you are living here along, remember, YOU MUST BE STRONG! -birdswimming(feifei); 2001-9-7 (#193417@0)

our chinese jjmm are usually well-mannered, but that dosnt mean u cant use the f***king word, which is absolutely useful---when facing such scum, u must use coarse language, for case 1-- -guest:; 2001-9-7 {113} (#193356@0)
what the f***king have u done? u should say sorry to me
for case 2--you bastard (indies, pakies)

I am serious

不仅JJMM，我也用不出这样的词。骂人者的粗鲁无礼只能显示其自己的愚蠢，回骂只能让我受到更大的伤害。行车途中有人向我伸手指头时，我总在心里说：让真主原谅他们吧，他们是一时的鬼迷心窍而已。 -rollor(Rollor); 2001-9-7 (#193382@0)

not at all, they work damn well, having an impacting effect -guest:; 2001-9-7 (#193390@0)
are you a christian, roller? -pmer(pmer); 2001-9-7 (#193393@0)
这样忍气吞声，回家想想还是生气。 -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193405@0)

你第一句话是什么意思？其实在国内骂也就骂了，在这儿很多时候在做什么或说什么之前，总会想会不会给咱中国人丢脸。而且由于文化差异，有时候掌握不好度的问题。 -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193419@0)

this is not 骂, just cursing, I swear, a cursing word from our Chinese jjmm mouth (while necessary) will have a deterring effect on those offenders, don't you usually feel better after a string of words @##^% ? -guest:; 2001-9-8 (#193457@0)

我出个馊主意：对着镜子练习轻蔑地微笑,下次用你漂亮的大眼睛告述他：'你是个人渣！' 局外人还觉得你特别的elegant. -nokidding(nokidding); 2001-9-7 (#193369@0)
If i were you, -mrviceroy(熊咆龙吟*Daniel); 2001-9-7 {268} (#193407@0)
1. come on, man. it's not my fault. You still have lots of space on your bus, why can't i get on?

2. Be careful, u will get into trouble next time.
Now, give me an apology and i will give u my finger.
(then show him your middle-finger)

then it's done. :-)
As a lady, you don't need to shake hand with a man if you're not willing. Normally it's impolite for a man to give his hand first. -sailor(Sailor); 2001-9-7 (#193415@0)

But I can't tell if he is friendly or not. Everything seemed OK before he did that. I was afraid to embarass him if I refused to offer my hand. -guest:心情很糟; 2001-9-7 (#193431@0)

Show him a smile with your unexpectable feeling. -birdswimming(feifei); 2001-9-8 (#193440@0)

Thank you, feifei. By the way, what is BTW? -guest:心情转好：）; 2001-9-8 (#193448@0)

You got it already. It is exactly "By the way". It's time to sleep. Everything will be refreshed after having a nice dream. -birdswimming(feifei); 2001-9-8 (#193461@0)

@Calgary

今天真是个倒霉的日子，碰到两件很不开心的事~~~~

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