要求他汇报给校长，并要求他找孩子的家长谈话， 并告知如果事件发生你会立刻报警。和老师谈的时候你女儿要在场，让她给出证据（比如那些同学看见那个孩子和打假大王来找你女儿）， 这样老师才会相信。

这里的老师还是有一些权利处理学生的。 只是你不说，人家就以为everthing is OK, 不会主动去管的。另外告诉你女儿，上学和回家一定和其他同学一起走，那些坏孩子不敢在众人面前下手的。 平时你女儿要勇敢些，让那些孩子知道她并不害怕。

同时，搬家换学校。

上厕所都找个伴(要是我就尽量不去上厕所).下次再来找事,严厉一点,不要让对方看出你的害怕.另外我觉得女孩子的话,以暴治暴不好,可能会很危险或让事情变得更糟

有一本小册子叫《 Canadian Initiative for the Prevention of Bullying》

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛What Can You Do?


If You're A Victim:

Break the code of silence. Tell someone what's happening to you, despite your fear. It's the only way it will stop. Counsellors will keep your complaints anonymous and can find you the help you need.

While the decision to 'stand up for yourself' is ultimately yours, beware of fighting back with more violence - it only escalates the problem. Call the Kids Help Phone free of charge at 1-800-668-6868 if you have nowhere else to turn.

Peers:

Offer your support to a victim of violence. But if your friend is causing the trouble, let them know they're on a dangerous path. At some ages, nothing is more powerful than the influence of a good friend.


If You're A Perpetrator:

Eventually, you reach a point of no return in trying to convince the stereotyped 'angry young man' to stop the violence. But confidential counselling is available to you, as well. Ultimately, only you can control the decision to stop.

Teachers/Counsellors:

Watch for signs of violent behaviour and other warning markers. You'll often be the first line of defence. Call authorities if you suspect anyone is in imminent danger.

Source: SafeCanada.ca


Websites:

Bullying.org
www.bullying.org

L'Arche Canada
www.larchecanada.org

The Canadian Safe School Network
www.canadiansafeschools.com

November 14, 2005更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Police arrest 14 teens on harassment and threatening charges
Last updated Nov 15 2005 08:14 AM EST
CBC News

A group of teenagers were to make their first court appearance on Tuesday on various charges ranging from sexual assault to threatening after a 16-year-old girl was allegedly abused for more than a year.

The accused (12 boys, charged with criminal harassment, and two girls, charged with threatening bodily harm), are all students at James Cardinal McGuigan Catholic High School in the Keele Street and Finch Ave. W. area.

They cannot be identified under the Youth Criminal Justice Act.

Two other boys were arrested last week: a 17-year-old charged with assault, sexual assault, forcible confinement and failure to comply with probation and a 15-year-old, charged with sexual assault, forcible confinement and criminal harassment.

The girl told police that beginning last September, a group of classmates ganged up on her, and that she was attacked in a stairwell on Oct. 17 and sexually assaulted both there and later in the school bathroom. She also alleges an approach for sexual favours by a suspect at a local fast-food restaurant in September.

Insp. Tom McIlhone, of Toronto Police, would not elaborate on the charges, except to say, "We're not going to lay charges like this with minimal information, with minimal investigation. Suffice it to say we believe the victim."

Mary Jo Deighan of the Toronto District School Board admitted to concern that the incident didn't come to light earlier, but "we certainly understand why the alleged victim didn't come forward sooner." Police say threats kept the girl silent, and for her safety she is no longer at the school. But she plans to return to class as soon as she can.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

答复是：“they may be just want to show thire power”既然如此，告诉孩子不要怕，遇事也不用试图和他们讲理，好汉不吃眼前亏，校内有好朋友做伴，校外由我接送等等，同时，准备向相关机构反映情况。当我被一帮奇装异服的青少年围着时，才真正体会到了女儿的压力，我请他们认识到我的诚意，意识到我女儿只是一个老实的学生，不值得她们威胁，可从他们尴尬的表情背后，我仍然感到不安。
各位家长，在孩子的教育中，仅仅培养善良和正直还是不够的，以前我给与孩子的都是阳光的一面，到现在孩子还说“我不怕她们，我没惹过她们”。很乱，想不明白。