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I am a daycare teacher working with infant and toddlers. This is what we do and why...

snowing(Mindy)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛We'll look at the child's eyes directly and say: No hitting. It hurts. Let's find something else to play. And take the toy away or move the child to other quiet playing area.
Reason: If the child is just exploring "cause and effect": cause: hitting; effect: another child crying. It might seems a fun game to play for the child who hits. So apply appropriate consequence is important.

Another possibility could be the child is seeking attention from adults by behave agressively.
If this is the case, give the child as much attention as possible when she/he behaves, such as playing with her, talking to her, hugs and kisses, etc. While she/he hits, just remove her/him and ignore her/him, comfort the child who was hurt.

It is also possible the child was overly stimulated by the environment (noise/chaos) etc. Get her/him some quiet activity, or just cuddliing.

or if kids fighting over toys, provide sufficient toys, including duplicated toys. Offer child different ways to defend his/her toy, such as using words, say "Mine!" if the child can talk or even use hand gesture.

Observe the child carefully over time and see what triggles his/her agressive behavior, so you'll know how to deal with it accordingly.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 14个月的小女孩在day care拿玩具砸小朋友的头，请问如何教育，头痛中。。。 -yellowmaple(maple); 2006-5-1 (#2941226@0)
    • 只能告诉他不可以这样做，这样会把别的小朋友打疼的，然后那个小朋友就会哭的，然后学哭状。。。。14个月大的孩子，其实是不懂的，但是可以教她什么可以做什么不可做。 -mike2000(风筝 我飞); 2006-5-2 (#2942220@0)
      • 谢谢！ -yellowmaple(maple); 2006-5-3 (#2946227@0)
    • 具体情况具体分析。先弄清楚是不是有小朋友靠近你女儿，想拿她的玩具或她以为别人想拿她的玩具， -gina2002(至爱小肥肥); 2006-5-3 {775} (#2945311@0)
      这个年龄的孩子语言发展还不太好，他们不懂得告诉别人那是他的玩具，不要哪，心里一着急就动手。这种情况会一直持续到两三岁，尤其是语言不太好的孩子。这时候只能预防在先，daycare的老师应该知道，尽量不要让孩子们去抢别人的玩具，至于打了，要把她的玩具拿开，看着她，坚定严肃地说：“No,it hurts." 可以让她看看哭的小朋友，告诉她他被打疼了，所以哭，让她去抱抱他，说"sorry"（如果她会说的话）。这个时候的孩子打人，只能当时处理，事后说是没用的，因为她不会记得了，说只会令她困惑。我想老师告诉你只是想让你知道有这么回事，并且让你留意她是否在家里打人。
      在家里，如果孩子打大人，千万别以为好玩，就和她笑，这样她会以为这是游戏。孩子刚开始是什么道德观念都不懂的，大人不要以为她小，就无所谓，一般来说，8，9个月的孩子有时无意识打打大人，一定要让她知道这不好，要不以后他就会玩打人游戏。
      希望有帮助。
      • 谢谢！最近小家伙好像特别烦躁，据daycare老师说动不动就发脾气大哭打人，在家里也是喜怒无常，不知道是不是哪里不舒服。 -yellowmaple(maple); 2006-5-3 (#2946234@0)
        • 家里有什么特别事发生吗？如果她身体没什么病痛，有可能是心理有事，又说不出来。你们没有又怀孕吧？ 猜测而已。 -gina2002(至爱小肥肥); 2006-5-6 (#2952699@0)
          • Reasonable guess. -snowing(Mindy); 2006-5-6 (#2952906@0)
    • I am a daycare teacher working with infant and toddlers. This is what we do and why... -snowing(Mindy); 2006-5-6 {1237} (#2952901@0)
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛We'll look at the child's eyes directly and say: No hitting. It hurts. Let's find something else to play. And take the toy away or move the child to other quiet playing area.
      Reason: If the child is just exploring "cause and effect": cause: hitting; effect: another child crying. It might seems a fun game to play for the child who hits. So apply appropriate consequence is important.

      Another possibility could be the child is seeking attention from adults by behave agressively.
      If this is the case, give the child as much attention as possible when she/he behaves, such as playing with her, talking to her, hugs and kisses, etc. While she/he hits, just remove her/him and ignore her/him, comfort the child who was hurt.

      It is also possible the child was overly stimulated by the environment (noise/chaos) etc. Get her/him some quiet activity, or just cuddliing.

      or if kids fighting over toys, provide sufficient toys, including duplicated toys. Offer child different ways to defend his/her toy, such as using words, say "Mine!" if the child can talk or even use hand gesture.

      Observe the child carefully over time and see what triggles his/her agressive behavior, so you'll know how to deal with it accordingly.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net

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