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1.watch out that none of the adults at home hit him to punishment him or to catch his attention.
While my son was about 2 years old, he found it was very amusing just throwing his bowls, plates, spools, folks..etc from the high chair while eating; and could not stop this behavior.
I was trying to correct his behavior (of course when I look back now, it probably just his normal development stage to explore the world in his own way) so I asked his which hand thrown the plates away whenever this happened. He showed me the hand and I would hit his hand as a punishment.
Nothing improved after a week or two and one day he started hitting my hand. That was the time I realized that he hit me just imitating my behavior.
So I stopped and he never really hit the others or me afterwards.
2. use very simple language
Kids at this year probably would not understand any lengthy lecture from parents. So simple word combining with some action probably will work the best.
Still the example above, I changed my strategy to just take away the plate and tell him “NO”.
Consistency and Persistency will be paid off.
3. Only increase your voice to catch his attention, but stay in very calm tune when you talk to him, even when you are giving a lecture
Kids are kids. They don’t really understand what is wrong, what is right. And a lot of times they just imitate the parents’ behavior.
Kids will learn to stay calm if that is the way parents present to them更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
1.watch out that none of the adults at home hit him to punishment him or to catch his attention.
While my son was about 2 years old, he found it was very amusing just throwing his bowls, plates, spools, folks..etc from the high chair while eating; and could not stop this behavior.
I was trying to correct his behavior (of course when I look back now, it probably just his normal development stage to explore the world in his own way) so I asked his which hand thrown the plates away whenever this happened. He showed me the hand and I would hit his hand as a punishment.
Nothing improved after a week or two and one day he started hitting my hand. That was the time I realized that he hit me just imitating my behavior.
So I stopped and he never really hit the others or me afterwards.
2. use very simple language
Kids at this year probably would not understand any lengthy lecture from parents. So simple word combining with some action probably will work the best.
Still the example above, I changed my strategy to just take away the plate and tell him “NO”.
Consistency and Persistency will be paid off.
3. Only increase your voice to catch his attention, but stay in very calm tune when you talk to him, even when you are giving a lecture
Kids are kids. They don’t really understand what is wrong, what is right. And a lot of times they just imitate the parents’ behavior.
Kids will learn to stay calm if that is the way parents present to them更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net