Take care, because we have no other choise, and it is the life that we chose.

生活就是这样，无法改变，能改变的只有自己。所以要让自己凡事想的开。我的社会阅历还不算长，说来大家莫见笑。我也曾是极度幻想型，大学毕业一年，我发现这样不行。于是我想了个办法，将幻想和期望割裂，就是想归想，然后该干吗干吗。又过了不到一年，我发现幻象＝逃避，逃避矛盾和责任，于是决定彻底抛弃幻想，该干吗干吗。后来又想到，人失去了幻想，恐怕会失去生活的热情，呵呵，那我就给自己起个座右铭，”我要用最现实的态度去实现我的幻想"。也就是面对现实，积极的去解决问题。

老米卢说的好：“态度决定一切”。我就是要快乐，谁也别想档住！
祝这位朋友，哭过之后，快乐起来。

call me if it would make you feel better, we could cry together;

Life could be full of monsters, it could also be as light as feather;

When love points its finger, even the toughest one would surrender;

Don't ask yourself if you should wait longer, the name of love is suffer;

lovely you, not to wonder, somewhere there is another wanderer;


the moon tonight is very round and clear, nature is generous to us, don't you think so? ---- drunker

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