本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛25 yrs ago, she’s a pretty girl, graduated from a famous university majored in computer. After joining work for just one year, she’s assigned to Swiss for training for one year. He’s a handsome man with no post secondary education, had a decent job but no real potential.
She felt love with him and got married, though her parents warned her to think over the decision. Marriage life was not as great as she hoped. She started to doubt if such life was what she really wanted.
She decided to go study abroad alone. She went to Europe. Like most of the Chinese overseas students at that time, she had to work like crazy to earn each $ for study and life. Even so she still enjoyed the beautiful European culture and simple life there, of course, there were some romances as well.
She still guaranteed her husband out to Belgium. But their lives could no longer on the same track. 1 yr later, she immigrated to Canada and also brought him along. And then they got divorced.
She married again and this time with a local Canadian who’s 13 yrs older than her. Unfortunately she chose the wrong man again. He’s a typical loser if you call it, with no money, not even a stable job. He changes job 2-3 times a year and never tells her how much he earns. By this age he’s still never owned a property as no bank would be willing to lend money due to his poor credit history.
In Canada she’s not in the field of computer any more, she’s a massage therapist, making about 35k a year. She never had a child, from both marriages, even she would die for one.
Do you think her life is a tragedy? You know what, she’s one of the most attractive women I’ve met. She’s graceful, calm, loving, energetic, still in good shape and active in many social groups. She loves yoga, travelling, cooking, gardening and anything brings inspiration and beauty. She’s still a good friend to her ex and his current wife.
Her life is not perfect, as she’s still with this 2nd husband who she has no trust in. She has a lot to deal with, but she’s far from depression or anything like that. Quitting life? Life has so much to offer, more than you can imagine. Just see how you seize your day.
Wish her story could be of some inspiration to you. Good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
She felt love with him and got married, though her parents warned her to think over the decision. Marriage life was not as great as she hoped. She started to doubt if such life was what she really wanted.
She decided to go study abroad alone. She went to Europe. Like most of the Chinese overseas students at that time, she had to work like crazy to earn each $ for study and life. Even so she still enjoyed the beautiful European culture and simple life there, of course, there were some romances as well.
She still guaranteed her husband out to Belgium. But their lives could no longer on the same track. 1 yr later, she immigrated to Canada and also brought him along. And then they got divorced.
She married again and this time with a local Canadian who’s 13 yrs older than her. Unfortunately she chose the wrong man again. He’s a typical loser if you call it, with no money, not even a stable job. He changes job 2-3 times a year and never tells her how much he earns. By this age he’s still never owned a property as no bank would be willing to lend money due to his poor credit history.
In Canada she’s not in the field of computer any more, she’s a massage therapist, making about 35k a year. She never had a child, from both marriages, even she would die for one.
Do you think her life is a tragedy? You know what, she’s one of the most attractive women I’ve met. She’s graceful, calm, loving, energetic, still in good shape and active in many social groups. She loves yoga, travelling, cooking, gardening and anything brings inspiration and beauty. She’s still a good friend to her ex and his current wife.
Her life is not perfect, as she’s still with this 2nd husband who she has no trust in. She has a lot to deal with, but she’s far from depression or anything like that. Quitting life? Life has so much to offer, more than you can imagine. Just see how you seize your day.
Wish her story could be of some inspiration to you. Good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net