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坚决不签。加拿大任何部门都非常重视 complain. Write a formal complain letter to the school principle.

happylady12345(release)

You should address some important point:
1.Your daughter didn't do it
2.You are not happy about how this teacher dealing with this being loud issue even if your daughter was loud. She is a professional educator,she should know how important self-esteem is to a child.Her negative punishment method not only hurt your daughter's feeling but also her dignity .
3.You don't think being loud is such a big offense to any school policy .If she was loud, "sorry" would be enough.
4.You are not going to let your daughter sign it and you are going to write a very formal letter to the school board if you don't receive any reply before Christmas.

Hand it to the principle in person by your self.

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Last Updated: 2007-12-16
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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 孩子回家带了一封老师要求写的"检讨书",让我很烦恼! -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-16 {438} (#4123567@0)
大概内容就是说:她在走廊上大声讲话等等, 但我们在了解事情经过的时候却发现不是这样, 是另外一个同学大声讲话, 被老师批评的时候硬说我女儿也有大声说, 女儿哭着坚持自己没有大声讲话,说是那个同学冤枉她. 现在面对那份需要父母签名的检讨书, 我们不知道该怎么办了? 老公的意思是签了算了, 我的意见是既然没做就不能认, 这是做人的原则, 我该怎么做呢? 或者在那检讨书上写些什么才能向老师表达我的想法呢? 英文不太好, 怕表达不好还更影响老师对女儿的看法..............

不签字,直接电话约APPT,或是写条,约时间面谈.不要留任何书面的东西,表达你对这事的看法. -newtoronto(一家三口); 2007-12-16 (#4123578@0)

yes, that is the right way to go!!! -backyard0000(tidyyard); 2007-12-16 (#4123591@0)

这句话英文该怎么讲:"我想通过这件事,让女儿知道, 做了的事情无论有多么错都要认! 但事情就算再微不足道,如果没做就不能承认. 这是做人的原则." -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-16 (#4123624@0)

you have to apologize for the things you did wrong; otherwise, stand up for yourself!!! -backyard0000(tidyyard); 2007-12-16 (#4123933@0)

为什么要不要留下书面的东西呢?其中有什么我要注意的吗? -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-16 (#4123596@0)

坚决不签。加拿大任何部门都非常重视 complain. Write a formal complain letter to the school principle. -happylady12345(release); 2007-12-16 {702} (#4125147@0)
You should address some important point:
1.Your daughter didn't do it
2.You are not happy about how this teacher dealing with this being loud issue even if your daughter was loud. She is a professional educator,she should know how important self-esteem is to a child.Her negative punishment method not only hurt your daughter's feeling but also her dignity .
3.You don't think being loud is such a big offense to any school policy .If she was loud, "sorry" would be enough.
4.You are not going to let your daughter sign it and you are going to write a very formal letter to the school board if you don't receive any reply before Christmas.

Hand it to the principle in person by your self.

我儿子小时也被冤枉过，老师要他写检讨，他就在检讨书上说他没有做，是被冤枉的，但是以后一定要小心，不让类似的事件发生在自己身上。我就签名了。 -rules(南北); 2007-12-16 (#4123625@0)

这里的老师也让孩子写检讨书? -snowyheart100(snowy); 2007-12-16 (#4123914@0)

我会这么和老师讲: -hmh(快乐家庭); 2007-12-16 {403} (#4123967@0)
学校发生的事请如有老师在场,亲眼看见,我们一定会配合老师的惩罚.但是,在没有成人在场的情况下,我们家长很难区别这是孩子们互相推卸责任怕受到惩罚还是真正的事实.
作为家长不愿在没有事实证明的情况下批评孩子. 对他可能并没有做过的事横加批评对他的成长不利.请学校不要为难家长.

作为家长听到这样的情况很难过,平时在家里的教育没有和学校向左,都是要求小孩不要在公共场合大声讲话.平日如果发现小孩有这样的问题.,一定及时教育

谢谢! 你说的非常好, 自己英文不好,不会用英文正确表达,哪位给帮忙提点一下. -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-16 (#4124125@0)

你写我帮你改 -hmh(快乐家庭); 2007-12-16 (#4124156@0)

非常感谢大家的帮助! 谢谢! -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-16 (#4125315@0)
汇报一下进展 -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-17 {487} (#4127600@0)
综合了大家的意见, 我今天电话约见了老师, 对她表达了我的看法: 只有一个同学说我女儿有大声讲话, 其他的同学居然都没人听见?我女儿如果做了, 一定要承担责任, 但如果她真的没这样做, 我认为我们要相信她, 我很相信我女儿.........之类的.那老师当时就再问一次其他人是否有听到我女儿大声讲话, 其他的同学都说没有, 然后老师就对那个说我女儿有犯错的男生说: "你不诚实!", 当着我的面就给我女儿道歉SAY SORRY,女儿很开心可以沉冤得雪. 事情完满结束, 回家后我老公也表示我这次的坚持是正确的.
再次感谢大家的意见! 鞠躬!

good job!... -ruby92(桃逃*世界和平); 2007-12-18 (#4127912@0)
GOOD，表面上这没什么，其实对你女儿的信心和原则是个很重要的事情，多年后她成人后估计还记得这样一个事情。 -westvv(Bestway); 2007-12-18 (#4127924@0)
好 -mssg(Wild_Killer); 2007-12-18 (#4128087@0)
good -sofia(小白兔婆婆－健康平安); 2007-12-18 (#4128093@0)
啊？这老师也太草率了！居然对一个人的投诉不做调查就让你写检讨书！幸亏遇到了你。 -rollor(Rollor); 2007-12-18 (#4128112@0)
为你女儿高兴一下。 -haploidus(今剩叹); 2007-12-18 (#4128216@0)
为你女儿高兴一下。 -haploidus(今剩叹); -apighappy(幸福猪); 2007-12-18 {24} (#4128224@0)
一直以为你是个男的呢:)))
为你女儿高兴一下!我小时候一有人告状，我妈不分青红皂白就指责我，对我后来的成长造成很大的影响，我发誓再不让自己犯一样的错。 -hmh(快乐家庭); 2007-12-18 (#4128275@0)

我小时候，只要在外面有了纷争，回家就要挨骂，尽管常常是被人欺负了。这个教育让我到现在，在为自己的权力抗争的时候，都要挣扎很久。对我儿子，我极力教育他一定为自己抗争！ -qgomle(依山傍水*痴人说梦); 2007-12-18 (#4128641@0)

can't be better -mikesmith(老猫); 2007-12-18 (#4128408@0)
恭喜。这件小事对你女儿会有很大影响，还有对你以后的有关与学校打交道的心态，也会有很大影响！ -qgomle(依山傍水*痴人说梦); 2007-12-18 (#4128548@0)
good job. -win(秋天的菠菜); 2007-12-18 (#4128569@0)
好好。我小时候老师也让我写检查。我妈也不干了。跑到学校跟老师理论半天。最后我也没写。 -lilyba(sunshine 阳光灿烂); 2007-12-18 (#4128583@0)
电脑搬家，好几天没上来，今天看到这个消息，真高兴！顺便问一下，是什么学校？ -dr.pop(Dr.pop); 2007-12-19 (#4130328@0)

TRELAWNY PUBLIC SCHOOL -samlao(哪里是吾家); 2007-12-19 (#4132248@0)

Good Job! -mirandajane(竹露滴清响); 2007-12-19 (#4132514@0)

glad you did stand up for her... -backyard0000(tidyyard); 2007-12-19 (#4132357@0)

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坚决不签。加拿大任何部门都非常重视 complain. Write a formal complain letter to the school principle.

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