这个年龄的孩子对自己的看法,多是受大人观点的影响, 因为他们并不懂得那些形容词的真正含义,他们只是重复大人的言谈。 等到他们真正懂得了, 有时又太迟了,因为那个IMAGE已经深深地刻入了他们的脑海里.
试一试多带孩子 出去玩,
不要评判他的能力, 永远告诉他,他能行,大声表扬他的任何一点小小的进步,大声表扬他的willingness to try,
Don't let him down
耐心,爱心,恒心,信心,缺一不可.
这是对家长的考验,并不是对孩子的考验
Share with you, it took my boy one whole year to score the first goal in his soccer team. But both of us are extreamly happy since we all know he loves soccer, enjoys soccer, work hard on it, and is making very good progress: he hardly touched the ball last year, tried so hard to stay away from physical contact in the field, and now he is able to demonstrate the confidence in himself in the game, ...
I did not teach him anything, all I was doing just playing with him, watching soccer game with him (like euro 2008, world cup..etc).