对方不友善，孩子不高兴一阵子是很正常的，不妨告诉他这一点。换了你我,恐怕也一样, (或许不高兴的具体事情不一).
告诉他每个人是不一样的, 对方或许并不知道hurt his/her feeling,
教她如何分享,表达自己的情绪的同时,不要伤害别人的感受,
告诉他表达不同意见并不意味着不爱对方....
多鼓励,肯定他的感受和决定..
My opinion, every feeling is eligiable, we as parents should only deal with(or principle if you prefer) child's action, not their feelings. We should respect their feelings. We simply can not impose our feelings over them.
告诉他每个人是不一样的, 对方或许并不知道hurt his/her feeling,
教她如何分享,表达自己的情绪的同时,不要伤害别人的感受,
告诉他表达不同意见并不意味着不爱对方....
多鼓励,肯定他的感受和决定..
My opinion, every feeling is eligiable, we as parents should only deal with(or principle if you prefer) child's action, not their feelings. We should respect their feelings. We simply can not impose our feelings over them.