another wonderful book: the magic years
http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Years-Understanding-Handling-Childhood/dp/0684825503/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1222356798&sr=1-1
http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Years-Understanding-Handling-Childhood/dp/0684825503/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1222356798&sr=1-1