本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛After a few times, I lost my patience and yelled to her suddenly. She was frightened so much, so I had to say sorry, and later explain why ...
Stopped some days, I tried to teach her again,and then, the same situation happened again... and again...and again... I lost my patience to teach her completely.
One day, when we were drawing something, she had no mind to write down the thing's name, I was so surprised when and why she could do it... I wrote a few more words at once, she was very happy to show me she had already known two of them. When she found I looked so surprised, she laughed happily. Later when I showed her a new word, she looked nervous again, but she gave me her a little more patience. Suddenly I understood that because she was a very self-respected girl, so when she didn't have eough confidence, she preper to do easier things to hide her shy feeling.
When I recognized that, I told her that it was no problem when she couldn't remeber the new word at once because it was normal, and especially she was little. I felt her relax at once clearly... poor girl.
Now, she can listen to me very well because I looked very relax. If she wants to show me other things, I would wait for her, but find a chance to pull her attention back. She is interested in reading more.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
Stopped some days, I tried to teach her again,and then, the same situation happened again... and again...and again... I lost my patience to teach her completely.
One day, when we were drawing something, she had no mind to write down the thing's name, I was so surprised when and why she could do it... I wrote a few more words at once, she was very happy to show me she had already known two of them. When she found I looked so surprised, she laughed happily. Later when I showed her a new word, she looked nervous again, but she gave me her a little more patience. Suddenly I understood that because she was a very self-respected girl, so when she didn't have eough confidence, she preper to do easier things to hide her shy feeling.
When I recognized that, I told her that it was no problem when she couldn't remeber the new word at once because it was normal, and especially she was little. I felt her relax at once clearly... poor girl.
Now, she can listen to me very well because I looked very relax. If she wants to show me other things, I would wait for her, but find a chance to pull her attention back. She is interested in reading more.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net