本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I've seen so called "too much love/care/scarifice" is actually abused to reject their kids, restrict their kids. etc. I hate to see this word "sacrifice". With kids, parents share the joyful life and love, How come the sacrifice? "Sacrifice for kids" is truly a miserable word here. In my mind, a great parent will never ever think he's sacrificing for his kids. A great parent would be grateful with the life his kids brings to. I hate this word coz it also brings a big burden to your kids... just too heavy for them. Is this a great parent would do?
I think the best way to let kids be thoughtful and caring is to behave such by yourself. The communication is an importance piece to reach a mutual acceptable resolution. It's the skill, but not the love. The question here is what to do if there is no mutual understanding to be reached. Are you going to step back for your kids or ask your kids to understand you so as to compromise?
Jeffrey and the mom are not the same people. Jeffrey stands on kids’ side while the mom is on parent side. Jeffrey is doing really well on kids’ side. How about the mom if compared with Jeffrey?
Again, I feel a big different between you and me while reading your last paragraph. I always try to think or understand from kids' point of view while you are doing the opposite. Such comments like “Going to PROM or not is not of that much of importance” are your thoughts, from parent’s side. Do you think how the kids think about? Is this what you called communication?更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I think the best way to let kids be thoughtful and caring is to behave such by yourself. The communication is an importance piece to reach a mutual acceptable resolution. It's the skill, but not the love. The question here is what to do if there is no mutual understanding to be reached. Are you going to step back for your kids or ask your kids to understand you so as to compromise?
Jeffrey and the mom are not the same people. Jeffrey stands on kids’ side while the mom is on parent side. Jeffrey is doing really well on kids’ side. How about the mom if compared with Jeffrey?
Again, I feel a big different between you and me while reading your last paragraph. I always try to think or understand from kids' point of view while you are doing the opposite. Such comments like “Going to PROM or not is not of that much of importance” are your thoughts, from parent’s side. Do you think how the kids think about? Is this what you called communication?更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net