本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Today my father and I spoke about bullying. Bulling has many participants, the bully, the bystander-laughers, the bystander-do nothings, the bystander-friends, the bullied, the teacher, and the parents.
The bulling part of this is the bully, the bystander-laughers, and partially the bystander-do nothings. The worst are the bystander-laughers. The second worst is the bully, the least worst but still mean are the bystander-do nothings. The bullied is the one feeling the worst. The bystander-friends depend. If they try to help you know they are you friends, but if they just stand back and don’t do anything then they are part of the bullying force!
The kids try to stop bullying by forming “unholy” gangs because they help each other, in big groups of up to 6-9 kids to stop the bullying. This strategy works because the bullies don’t pick on lots of kids, only loners; loners are 1 or 2 kids only. Other kids stay near the teachers so the bully cannot bully them.
The unfair thing about bullying is that when kids get bullied and they defend themselves and hurt the bully they get in trouble for defending themselves. The teachers only care about keeping order in the school. If the bullying happens it happens but all they care about is having the control over the kids and the school so if they see bullying they stop it if they don’t see it they just tell the bully to stop bullying the kid. But still the bullies keep bullying the kid! Most of the time the teachers don’t even care about the kid they just care about order and control over the school and kids.
Today my dad told me about these 2 kids who committed suicide by hanging themselves! Just because of bullies! The bullying must have been intense! I have seen bullying and it was not pretty!
The little kids think that bullying is just pinching, punching, kicking, and other stuff like that, but no! Bullying is way more than mere physical punishment, bullying can be anything it just needs to have a physiological effect on your mood to make you unhappy, sad, hurt, and more. Verbal bullying is in a way were they effect your mood by calling you names, disgracing you, and other things to hurt you and your feelings.
People bully others because they are afraid, and or bullied before. Bullies are cowards and they only pick on the weaker kids and smaller kids (sound familiar?) do you think its fair for the weaker kids? (If you know most stories have rich people attacking the poor, the weak, and the unarmed.)
You know bullies are mean, scared, and other things. There are many ways of bullying. There is physical bullying, verbal abuse, turning out, teasing, and many more ways of making people feel bad.
The parent should tell the bully that bullying is not nice but the bullied kids parents should not over react. Many kids don’t talk to their parents because they think their parents will over react over it like go over to the school and complain or something like that but really the parents need to remain calm and try to help the kids end the bullying, but not for them.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
The bulling part of this is the bully, the bystander-laughers, and partially the bystander-do nothings. The worst are the bystander-laughers. The second worst is the bully, the least worst but still mean are the bystander-do nothings. The bullied is the one feeling the worst. The bystander-friends depend. If they try to help you know they are you friends, but if they just stand back and don’t do anything then they are part of the bullying force!
The kids try to stop bullying by forming “unholy” gangs because they help each other, in big groups of up to 6-9 kids to stop the bullying. This strategy works because the bullies don’t pick on lots of kids, only loners; loners are 1 or 2 kids only. Other kids stay near the teachers so the bully cannot bully them.
The unfair thing about bullying is that when kids get bullied and they defend themselves and hurt the bully they get in trouble for defending themselves. The teachers only care about keeping order in the school. If the bullying happens it happens but all they care about is having the control over the kids and the school so if they see bullying they stop it if they don’t see it they just tell the bully to stop bullying the kid. But still the bullies keep bullying the kid! Most of the time the teachers don’t even care about the kid they just care about order and control over the school and kids.
Today my dad told me about these 2 kids who committed suicide by hanging themselves! Just because of bullies! The bullying must have been intense! I have seen bullying and it was not pretty!
The little kids think that bullying is just pinching, punching, kicking, and other stuff like that, but no! Bullying is way more than mere physical punishment, bullying can be anything it just needs to have a physiological effect on your mood to make you unhappy, sad, hurt, and more. Verbal bullying is in a way were they effect your mood by calling you names, disgracing you, and other things to hurt you and your feelings.
People bully others because they are afraid, and or bullied before. Bullies are cowards and they only pick on the weaker kids and smaller kids (sound familiar?) do you think its fair for the weaker kids? (If you know most stories have rich people attacking the poor, the weak, and the unarmed.)
You know bullies are mean, scared, and other things. There are many ways of bullying. There is physical bullying, verbal abuse, turning out, teasing, and many more ways of making people feel bad.
The parent should tell the bully that bullying is not nice but the bullied kids parents should not over react. Many kids don’t talk to their parents because they think their parents will over react over it like go over to the school and complain or something like that but really the parents need to remain calm and try to help the kids end the bullying, but not for them.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net