First we dress up to make ourselves feel good. Looking nice, and possibly sexy, gives us self confidence. Nothing makes us feel more alluring than that new, special outfit. If someone tells us we look good. The effort was worthwhile. Yesss we do want you men to look , even if we won't admit to it. Why do you think we wear heels that hurt our feet. To strut our stuff and make you look twice. We are all bad to the bone.