women are moody animals. Men are cheating animals.I suggest you watch one more time 大-话-西-游 and 《了不起的盖茨比》before dreaming of uniting with him again. We can never tread into the same river. What he has dreamed probably is not what you possess.
I guess the end of the story is life is just as what it should be.
-beijing-dj(beijing-dj);
2001-7-11{275}(#127810@0)
I don't believe a man would dream of you for more than 10 years!
-guest:;
2001-7-11(#128053@0)
I was telling a true story, believe it or not.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11(#128145@0)
Your age may be 30, your thought looks like 20 and your action is more like 10.
-guest:藍天白雲;
2001-7-11(#128110@0)
So you mean a person of age 30 should't have thought of love and crazy behaviour for love? Does love not exist when people are getting older?
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11(#128141@0)
People can have love at any age. But you are too long for love and forget you were not the girl ten years ago and he was not the boy ten years ago, you are a women and he is man now!
-guest:藍天白雲;
2001-7-11(#128295@0)
I didn't mean to get love when trying to find him. All I wanted is to get help. He did help me. Feeling was aroused by itself, I could't control. We are different from 10 years ago, so we won't get divorced.
-guest:;
2001-7-11(#128464@0)
it's very simple: the guy keeps thinking about you from time to time, because he has never really got you. when he really got you, hei hei ..., then it will be a different story ... you know what i am saying.
-jesus(jesus);
2001-7-11(#128182@0)
I thought it was a true love when the feeling was so strong, when I felt my whole life was for the love. I didn't see the peaceful warm in my family. People see one same thing differently in different mood.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11(#128479@0)
Please remember: the stronger, the shorter
-guest:藍天白雲;
2001-7-11(#128504@0)
You are right, and thank you.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11(#128861@0)
Sometimes it is not the problem of what I want to do but whether I can do it. It is so tired trying to suppress myself. So, I will just let nature take its course……
-guest:dan;
2001-7-12(#130079@0)
You are right to some extent, even it is so cold to reveal the truth......If I had fallen in love with him in college, he wouldn’t know his feeling would last so long and I wouldn’t have such strong feeling today, we might just be like ordinary couple having quarrels and calmness but less passion of love.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11{234}(#128872@0)
You hurted the man 10 years ago and he never forgot. Now it's time for him to play with you and at the end let you be hurted more deeply than him... you give him the chance
-wander2001(wander);
2001-7-11(#128231@0)
This is the worst comment. I salute you if you can totally control your feelings and have such a rocky heart --- That is what I wanted the most. I've tried many times to get rid off the feeling but I couldn't.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11(#128470@0)
Which one do you mean "with a rocky heart", the lady or the man? Time can change everything except strongest love or strongest hate, love or hate, who knows?
-wander2001(wander);
2001-7-11(#128572@0)
I meant you have a rocky heart saying like that. I didn’t mean to hurt him many years ago and he knew that. It was my foolishness did. But few people are really strong facing feeling.身不由己.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-12(#129102@0)
Let it be, love is hard to analyze, to be happy and don't hurt yourself and your lover again.Feel love, that's enough. Take care.
-tita(new_view);
2001-7-11(#128612@0)
Thank you, really, tears swell again reading your words.......I wanted to let it be. I have many things to care, my child, my family and my work. How I wish I could be like most of you all here having a light heart and not feeling being drawn by something. I tell the story here to force myself to open my mind by reading different opinions, to see how others laugh at my foolishness, to have a chance to see how feeling is nothing in a colorful world, so to release myself.
-guest:dan;
2001-7-11{412}(#128858@0)