For a reasonable man or woman, it should never reach that point to make the other party feel so hurt as to go for external help.Some times, "solve it internally" is just an excuse for the abuser to continue the behaviour. Domestic violence happens to highly educated people. Nothing to do with race or if you are a Ph.D or not.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2006-2-14{201}(#2783267@0)
人格侮辱 is not "physical abuse". ABUSE is different than complaints. That's two different topics. One can be solved within the family, the other cannot.i have not seen any data supporting that 男性收到女性的人格侮辱暴力的比例反而比女性大. i am a married man, much stronger than my wife. it does not mean i have the RIGHT to hit my wife when there is an issue within the family and I am not happy with what she said. We are civilized people and let's solve things in civilized way.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2006-2-15{332}(#2784793@0)