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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / Could any one give me some suggestion? My daughter (2 yrs old) has been in a daycare downtown for around 3 months, a month ago, she is fine (no crying ) in the morning when we leave her. But recentlyshe cries a lots and looks very happy when we pick her up in the afternoon. It looks like she does not like the daycare, and she is just killing her time to wait for us to pick her up again. Now we transfer her to part-time. She will go to daycare once a week, and staying at home with grandma for the rest days. I do want her to enjoy the daycare. What can I do to help her?
-llxgrace(qingwaMM&BB);
2006-3-3
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我女儿也有过这样的阶段,而且还会反复。有一段时间开心些,过一段时间又不想去了。孩子太小没法说出为什么不想去。要仔细观察是不是DAYCARE实在不好。如果不是,我觉得要坚持送她。每天都温柔而坚定地送她去,等她有自己的朋友就会好的。如果你妥协过,以后就更难了。
-joyce030312(wee);
2006-3-4
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Agree. If the teachers and the kids in the daycare are good, you have to sent your daughter regularly. But if you give up , shewon't like to go any more. Not mention your little two, a four-year-old could be like that, too.
-gina2002(至爱小肥肥);
2006-3-4
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这很正常,可能是新鲜劲过了, 也可能是遇到了什么新的困难,但一定要坚持送,特别是有规律的生活,让他知道一个星期他的生活是怎样安排的.我儿子入daycare两个月后适应的, 可是到四个月左右时他又不想去了, 我就一直引他说出不想去的原因,才知道因为天气冷了,出门要穿外套,他穿不好,又不会寻求帮助,所以很怕去daycare, 更害怕每天的室外活动.后来跟老师说了. 在家他也每天都要求自己穿衣服,过了两周,发现他会自己穿了,就又开始正常地去daycare了. 你一定弄清楚他不高兴的原因.
当然小孩再喜欢daycare, 还是很希望妈妈能陪就更好.
-lydia_de(lydia);
2006-3-6
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