lesson from this story: a divorced woman with child(ren) shouldn't enter another marriage AGAIN no matter how well he promised. Really terrible! Sincerely hope you will figure out a solution and have a happy life!!!
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23(#2859796@0)
If I understood correctly, your point is that divorced women could be better off without a second marriage, right? if so, we are on the same page.
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23(#2859812@0)
same page, same page
-gnits(mafia);
2006-3-23(#2859820@0)
so you mean women need marriages and husbands only when they lack of money??? husband=money? rich women=no need for marriage? what a logic!
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23(#2859878@0)
her current husband is not the rare case in Chinese men. Most Chinese men and women are narrow minded in their second marriages.
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23(#2859819@0)
It's too late to say if you second marriage is a mistake or not. For now, the only thing you can and should do is to work your marriage to the best possible scenario,which could be: get along with his own child well, frankly speak with your husband, ask him to treat your girl well. and ask him to share the houseworks with you, including take care of the youngest baby.
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23{204}(#2859853@0)
谢谢你的建议
-qingqing2002(轻轻的风);
2006-3-23(#2859886@0)
you are welcome :-). best wishes to you and your marriage and your girl.
-tired99(Imtired);
2006-3-23(#2859893@0)
then choose a special day to send, say one of your birthday or some good day, you cook a nice dinner, buy a gift to him something.........tell him Check you email, Asshole!
-marcelo(marcelo);
2006-3-23(#2859906@0)
i am so sorry, that was kidding, try to make you guys smile . i am sure she won't say that word to her hubby. i promise, in Queen's name.
-marcelo(marcelo);
2006-3-23(#2860018@0)