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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / my 3 year old son made me feeling sadmy son is two years and a half, living in the united states with my wife and my parents in law. he does not like me calling my wife. today, when we were talkng on the phone, he said to his mother, 'let me take the phone call, you can walk away', my wife let him take the phone, and he tried to cut the line...
i have been with him altogether for only three months after he was born.
feeling so sad...
anybody has similar stories?
-iamta(iamta);
2006-9-3
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oedipus complex :(((
-ely(要专心);
2006-9-3
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it already happened to you?
-iamta(iamta);
2006-9-3
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no chance yet...:(...family should not seperated... try to stay together as soon as possible..many things can sacrifice, not the wholeness of family..
-ely(要专心);
2006-9-3
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Don't be too upset, this is common for kids at this age that they tent to get closer to Mommy, even my boy does the same thing while my husband has been w/ him all the time.But I agree w/ ely(要专心) that you should end the family seperation ASAP. Take care.
-michellechole(Michelle Chloe);
2006-9-3
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thanks.
-iamta(iamta);
2006-9-3
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It's normal to a two year old. Kids in that age don't understand what the telephone means.Please do not think kid like adult. You should not be upset; however, I think you should share more time with your son because the care from father is very important to a boy.
-mirandajane(miranda);
2006-9-4
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it's normal. When my son was 3 years old, I back to china and brought him to Japan. On the airplane he always asked me if we stayed together with Dad in one room. It seemed he was so worried about that.At the subway station, when he saw his Dad coming he even tried to run away from us. But now he loves his Dad so much. You should live with him and give him your love.
-doesntmatter(bb);
2006-9-4
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我离开孩子仅三个月后回国接他,他知道消息后兴奋得到处说,可是晚上见到我后却害羞得不敢看我。想想孩子也是可怜,别人有爸爸妈妈,他就只有爷爷奶奶。所以我之后就再也不离开他了。
-doesntmatter(bb);
2006-9-4
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我家老大1岁半的时候,我调到外地工作,把孩子留给了父母看护。过了2个月我妈带她来看我,那时话还说不全,拿到火车票后,她兴奋的到处显巴,我妈和他说睡觉醒了后,就坐火车看妈妈去,于是睡觉一直有问题的小不点立马主动地睡觉去了。带她去公园,看见关动物的笼子空了,他就说:**找妈妈去了。
我是再也不会把孩子留给老人了看了,几天还行。孩子虽小,也有心呢。
-lisa2(乐了);
2006-9-5
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别担心,小小孩不懂电话的意义。我儿子(从3岁到6岁)从来不接任何电话,包括我的,我老公的,他爷爷奶奶,外公外婆的,以及好朋友的。一句话,不接受电话这种通讯方式。
-fish_in_toronto(fish_in_toronto);
2006-9-8
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