I used to think that I did everything for him and for the family. One day he made me realize that I do everything for myself. The more I have, the more I can give to him and the family.
-wangqq(wangqq);
2007-3-6(#3536536@0)
what if it was always you who give to him and the family,but you had gotten nothing from him, even only a verbal thanks from him.It is a balance between you and him. As the lenking did good job to take care the new born baby and her mother in law, she felt she gave a lot supports to her husband, but if her husband said that was trivial, she should do that because it was her responsibility . I think she will post the message in opposite attitude.
-busyatwork(忙并不快乐);
2007-3-6{320}(#3536634@0)
People who doesn't appreciate is everywhere. "Either you take it, or leave it". She can be happy with or without him. Being independent will always be good.One day my mom said "if you were still in China, it would be a lot eaiser.". I said "Mom, I left China so that I could create a better environment for your grandson and granddaughter." My mom murmured "It was about you.".
It wasn't only him to make my realize the point. To some extent, I am selfish. When we say "I have better this, I have better that.... " somebody out there is take the responsibilities that we should've taken.
-wangqq(wangqq);
2007-3-6{444}(#3536676@0)
Ding! Super heroine!
-chowder(中坚力量);
2007-3-5(#3535890@0)