你还真别说，一直觉得他儿子张得有点想谁，是有点象刘嘉玲噢，呵呵！：）女儿嘛，没觉得象谁，好象挺古典传统那种，呵呵：）））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733104@0)
The daughter looks a bit like 张艾嘉 in terms of face shape and smile. I love the spirit her eyes have mirrored: a slight sense of cunning naughtiness, it's like "Hey, I know it, and you don't." I just can't stop smiling at her photo. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733320@0)
I think the girl is truly innocent, thus more lovely, while the boy looks a bit sorrowful in the eyes. I wonder what he is thinking about and what message he wants to send out in that smile.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733318@0)
呵呵，你真好玩！：）））可能男孩比较调皮吧？我喜欢那个小SG! i am joking :))) 别误会！我亲戚家也有个小ＳＧ，大眼睛，长睫毛，可好玩了，更这个差不多，属于人见人爱那种，hehe, ：）））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733336@0)
It's good, but meanwhile I cannot help painfully feeling that your children's wonderful or wild imagination has been killed little by little by these "good" and "right" things. What an unfortunate loss of innocence.It must be great to be Angielina Jolie's son or daugther. Even though she herself is not an ethic role model, she is definitely a wonderful source and role model of freedom and imagination.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10{190}(#3732955@0)
还是有点中国式的教育思想在作怪，灌输太多，过早就给小孩制定了方向，有没有问过小孩想做什么？．．：）
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3732966@0)
同意，健全的人格和生活态度才最重要！虽然我没资格谈论小孩教育，只是看到无论在中国还是在这里，中国的父母还是各个都抱着望子成龙，以子为耀的态度，有些不太理解？好象这的人再接受西方教育，也不能摆脱这些，不能允许自己的孩子碌碌无为和是个平凡的人．．
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733089@0)
呵呵呵，我还没有切身体会，只是觉得外国人好象更注重小孩对一种生活态度的教育，所以他们活得很潇洒随意也比我们快乐简单，如果你每天都在跟小孩说律师好，医生好so on so，无形中会误导，让小孩慢慢淡忘他们真正想要的生活！
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733314@0)
我知道，我这些话，说出来就是着人不爱听的啦！但这是我的感受，我并没有说他们不爱孩子，我想他们的方式表达出来是，太爱太爱了．．． 也许是我不能象他们自己那样体会到吧，毕竟不是我的孩子， 呵呵呵呵！ 不过以后我也可能变成这样吧？who knows?:)
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733389@0)
I think LZ might be more open-minded than you are, so that he might be able to accept diverse feedbacks better than you could. Just because some of us are sharing our different opinions doesn't mean we don't love or like his children.To the opposite, it is our love or liking for his children that has brought up our concern and worrry that it might be too much to take for small children like LZ's son and daughter.
Believe me, love can rise out of worry, concern, even criticism.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10{251}(#3733392@0)
你说我吗？：）））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733400@0)
你当我想赢OPEN MIND CONTEST呢。别人的娃，别人自己知道怎么教怎么爱。你那种
CONCERN很不厚道的，捕风捉影的说别人RAISE一个UNHAPPY CHILD。算了，根本就想
跟你贴的，既然你这么想替我贴标签，就回你一贴，到处为止。
-wade(wade);
2007-6-10(#3733419@0)
Anyway, I will continue to share my concern, no matter whether you like it or not, or how you interpret it. Thanks, and my last reply to you as well. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733454@0)
有一次吃饭，一位妈妈，还没说几句话，直接说，来来来，看看我家宝宝照片先，我整个晕！！！
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733357@0)
晕！！！
-kooky(幸福像花爾一樣);
2007-6-10(#3733359@0)
什么让你晕？：）我的话，还是那个妈妈？，呵呵！
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733375@0)
那个妈妈？
-kooky(幸福像花爾一樣);
2007-6-10(#3733435@0)
谢天谢地！：）））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733436@0)
找个人嫁了吧.
-nakedape(裸猿);
2007-6-10(#3733403@0)
天那！完了我，肯定别大家认为我是那种：没有母爱的那种了！：）））我不过是说了句实话呀！其实，小孩都挺爱和我玩的：）））））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733415@0)
理解格格
-kooky(幸福像花爾一樣);
2007-6-10(#3733439@0)
谢天谢地！：））） -chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!); 15:13 (#3733436@0)
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733444@0)
Well, I am exceptional
-major154(阿苏－七月流火);
2007-6-10(#3733794@0)
Good question! My son would like to present a short video clip by himself for the topic of how to balance discipline and imagination. We will do it after coming back from soccer field. Stay tuned.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥，潇洒快意);
2007-6-10(#3733093@0)
你真够典型的，也许错了，只是感觉罢了！
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733097@0)
搬个小马扎先占个座儿.
-nakedape(裸猿);
2007-6-10(#3733163@0)
Thanks, even though I can't help sighing. See, a 8-year-old little boy has already started to think about such big topics like how to balance discipline and imagination. Gone with the wind is definitely the simple and sweet childhood.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733325@0)
I hope you can go easy on your daugther, since she seems to have managed to stay innocent, sweet and simple, which shows up at least in her eyes.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733329@0)
切，这有什么好“抗议”的，谁有没说你儿子缺少阳刚之气？！不过是说他张的好玩就是了吧！你不就想听这些呢吗？？？没劲！：）））
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733369@0)
Hm, is that the Master Tommy Chang's Black Belt World, also known as The Canadian Olympic Tae Kwon Do training centre? Looks farmiliar.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733374@0)
In the US when he was 4.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥，潇洒快意);
2007-6-10(#3733376@0)
I love this photo of his, which looks much better than the first one. Already a small man now. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733380@0)
Yeah, I always feel it's kind of yucky that healthy and sunny boys like yours are forced to pose like fair ladies in front of cameras, which is gross and cruel.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733393@0)
gross and cruel是asker (amour)的主体形象.纯属个人意见. 如有雷同, 实属巧合.
-nakedape(裸猿);
2007-6-10{33}(#3733399@0)
Thanks, and I feel honoured to be perceived like this by a 裸猿. :)))))))))
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733450@0)
棒槌
-nakedape(裸猿);
2007-6-10(#3733533@0)
See, I think you are smart enough to understand what I am talking about, but unfortunately you don't. I mean: if a 裸猿 thinks of me as gross and cruel, I must be the opposite of "gross and cruel", therefore, I feel honoured.Hey, there, sorry that it is just too difficult and complicated for a 裸猿 like you to understand human language.
My last reply to you, and take care of yourself, since it's kind of cold tonight. Put some clothes on, would you? :)
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10{234}(#3733535@0)
An ungrateful bitch with an ugly smile
-nakedape(裸猿);
2007-6-10(#3733577@0)
都照成明星了，不好吗？ 还文化落差？ hehe, :))
-chu.ge(楚格, be tough!!);
2007-6-10(#3733394@0)
I think the difference between western methodology and eastern methodology might be that western parents teach children HOW to fish, while some eastern parents teach children WHAT fish is to catch.In some cases, children have been pushed so much that they refuse to do whatever they are told to or taught to once they are grown up. One example common in religious families is that some people from strict Catholic families turn totally against Catholic belief, and don't ever want to touch it any more.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10{306}(#3733489@0)
我们刻意保留孩子的童真，as long as possible，一个例子，孩子至今还相信圣诞老人的存在，即使在班上，已有很多孩子在笑话他们。我们参加每次的圣诞老人游行，孩子们交给老人他们的亲笔信。在圣诞前夜，我们精心装饰礼品，放进一个个红色袜子里，等着他们的惊叹。
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥，潇洒快意);
2007-6-10(#3733497@0)
Have your children ever told you what they themselves want to be?
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733499@0)
"妹妹想做教芭蕾舞的老师"No surprise at all. I can feel that the little girl has dancing or performing talent and desire just by watching her photo; while the brother surprises me a little, cause I think he might like to be a Kongfu or sports star. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3733997@0)
Don't worry too much about their future, would you?:) I personally think they are much stronger than we are, cause they were born and grown up in a tougher and more sophisticated world and know how to handle it one day or another.
-asker(amour);
2007-6-10(#3734003@0)