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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 刚搬到一个新社区,希望三岁的儿子有新朋友玩,每天带他去公园眼巴巴地希望能帮他交上一两个朋友,无奈中国人少,老外的孩子语言关系话都搭不上。于是决定送他上daycare,入校的第一天看到有两个4岁,一个5岁的中国孩子,很兴奋。一个月过去了,发现他们都不跟儿子玩,玩滑梯时不让他上,笑他是baby;回家的路上儿子跟在他们后边跑,他们不让他跟。。我知道他们都是孩子,可是我还是觉得儿子好可怜;我知道要让他自己适应这个社会,因为我不可能永远让他待在避风港里,不可能让别人都爱他,可是想到以后他不知还要经历多少风雨我就心疼。其实我们小时候也是这样磕磕碰碰过来的,可是轮到自己做父母了,心却变得很脆弱。孩子还很天真地笑,自己却是强忍着才不落泪。
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2007-8-8
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Did you offer those kids something or invite them something? Did you talk to their parents? Did you stay a while to show your kid how to play with them? If just wait, it takes long time to make friends everywhere.I left a letter with our name, address and phone number to a chinese parent in my kid' school, made calls when go to playground at weekend etc. Now two kids are good friends, two families too.
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-linshell(Storybook);
2007-8-8
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鼓励他和班上孩子都玩,孩子们交流并不只靠语言。小女刚上daycare时,我们也担心她听不懂没法交流。有一天去接她,看见她正和一个当地孩儿站在窗下说话。她说她的中文,那个孩儿说他的英文,一句接一句。老师说他们太cute了,已经聊了有一会儿了。
-dreamplace(小胖);
2007-8-9
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