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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 看到不少朋友家小孩学琴痛苦万状的样子也苦了家长,最近儿子说有点想学琴,想支持又怕我们或者他坚持不下去,你们说学琴有什么用嘛?
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-20
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对大脑平衡发展有好处。
-april(april);
2007-11-20
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孩子7-8年级的时候,会一门乐器是这里学校的硬要求,你孩子想学,赶紧支持,还有什么好犹豫的。
-haploidus(今剩叹);
2007-11-20
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thanks for replying, I will support thim on that..
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-20
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what a question
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-11-20
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the reason for asking is that my son already has a few other classeslike drawing, swimming, hockey, skating and abcus, he is pretty much occupied already everyday and I need to strike a balance as which one is more important for him. Piano is something he mentioned himself, therefore I take into consideration
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-20
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great, thanks
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-11-20
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hockey完了还skating?confuse孩子了吧?
-duoshaosuanshao(不多也);
2007-11-20
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倒不全是hockey begs for very high skating skill and my son is kind of weak, particularly skate backward for defence position, you see those players skate backforward as fast as attackers? skating class kinda help me to move faster on ice in hockey class..
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-20
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He does have very busy schedule...my thought on that is, one physical (swimming is the first option), one art/instrument, and one academic.
-april(april);
2007-11-20
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since so many people here, I might well ask another widely debated issue, is it worthwhile to send child to learn chineseregardless of how he view himself, my son view himself as Canadian and visiting Shanghai is "going abroad" for him, I am just wondering that even if I can push him to chinese class, there is no way he will do the same thing to his child, Chinese will be lost anyway, so what's the point of learning Chinese anyway, isn't it good enough if only he can speak and understand?
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-20
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我的态度是尽量鼓励,创造条件,引起兴趣让他去学习,但是不太push。这毕竟是他的母语,也算一门外语,如果他愿意学,何乐而不为之呢,到teenager时,更是对他的identity的认识有好处。中文倒底有没有用是个大话题了,没有必要争论了。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2007-11-20
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学中文最大的好处是等孩子长大了, 与父母的交流比较方便. 中文不好的大孩子很难与父母沟通, 特别是你想了解孩子更多的心理感受时, 更是如此.
-wqqtn2001(Southlake);
2007-11-20
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这是我听到老中中最多的一种想法。换一种思维方式,抓紧提高自己的英文,也是能够改善与孩子交流的一种方式,还能帮助自己更好的了解这个社会,与孩子同时进步,和乐而不为之。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2007-11-21
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如果不是受本地教育的, 英文水平到了一定阶段后, 再想进一步就难了, 一般工作上的交流应该没有问题, 但在思想深层次上确实很难, 就象最牛的牛哥不时会也写出"Eye Docter" 的英文. 当然不是说作为父母不应该再努力提高自己的英文水平.
-wqqtn2001(Southlake);
2007-11-21
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学习语言最需要的就是环境。在这里,我相信父母自己提高英文素养要比孩子提高中文更容易,而且对父母自己也是收益大大。如果父母自己觉得“英文水平到了一定阶段后, 再想进一步就难了", 孩子更有理由在英文环境里说“中文水平到了一定阶段后, 再想进一步就难了"。
-april(april);
2007-11-21
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NG的英文没我的好是肯定的:),不过eye doctor的说法确实可以,这不像牙医必须是dentist而不能是tooth doctor.
-april(april);
2007-11-21
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不太喜欢使用"老中"这样的字眼, 似乎你英文水平很高, 自己已不是"老中"了.
-wqqtn2001(Southlake);
2007-11-21
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我们老中-自嘲的一种叫法。叫人家老外,叫自己老中,很公平啊。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2007-11-21
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我的英文水平不高,要不也不在rolia混了。但我还是很希望不断提高自己,跟上孩子进步的步伐,为孩子提供最好的support。我相信不断努力,也是有可能实现的。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2007-11-21
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音乐|美术|体育 各选一门吧,我儿子差不多 piano/drawing/swimming/taekwondo/中文学校。等跆拳道课结了准备报一个hockey beginner 班
-duoshaosuanshao(不多也);
2007-11-20
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让孩子做任何事情,都要有一个目标并且坚持向那个目标前进。这种坚持,肯定有一些痛苦,但更多的是锻炼。如果孩子能因此养成持之以恒的习惯,家长的教育就成功了。但是,家长和老师应当尽力把学琴的痛苦减小到最低。具体到你的孩子,他主动提出想学琴,这正是一个教育他如何建立目标并向目标前进的好机会。
如果是我,我会认真与他交流一下双方的看法,让他理解他会付出什么,然后得到什么。如果我希望他去学琴,我会鼓励他并承诺随时帮助他克服困难。如果我不特别希望他学琴,我会更加强调困难,让他自己承诺自己不会知难而退。
-rollor(Rollor);
2007-11-20
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thanks.. that's s great answerI believe the reason he want to learn Piano is he find some other kids he plays with can, even I don't work how much efforts we gonna put into this thing let alone my son.. you are absolutely right that I shall teach him to set a goal and try to reach that goal despite all the difficulties..
he don't have a clear goal about anything and all the goals are set by us...
-cuilimin(平平淡淡);
2007-11-21
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孩子当然不懂得建立长期目标,毕竟是孩子嘛。要慢慢培养。参加球队、学琴、攒钱买高档玩具都是学习设立目标并努力的过程。
-rollor(Rollor);
2007-11-21
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嗯,这样说来,我的教育算是成功的:)
-april(april);
2007-11-21
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能分享一下吗? 谢谢你.
-wowo(..);
2007-11-21
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无它,1。孩子好的习惯修养要从小抓起,大人决定之后要坚决,不妥协;2。 父母的言行是无声的榜样。
-april(april);
2007-11-21
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非常同意这个观点!
-hjxu(美梦成真);
2007-11-24
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学琴有什么用?A good question.
If taking one step further, do we have to have a purpose learning something new?
How about "Mom, I just like it, i don't know why?"
For me, this is a very valid reason
-bystander(bystander);
2007-11-21
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