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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 我儿子4岁半,幼儿园的老师说他字写得不好,我现在每天让他写半小时。他一看要写字,就这样那样,皱眉头。我很严厉要求他,可是,每次都没写几个字就坚持不下去了。请问各位,我这样子会不会把他逼得以后一看到写字就害怕,会不会适得其反?请教各位有什么好方法?谢谢。
-whj(whjlmx);
2008-1-16
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you already knew it, why still do it. Come on, he is only 4. Jesus. Don't you know it is playing time for kids here until high school? But seriously, you will hurt his interest in studying from an early age.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2008-1-16
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BTW, which JK? First time in Canada heard such comments from a teacher towards a 4.5 years old.
-mikesmith(老猫);
2008-1-16
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写不好就写不好吧。才四岁多呀,能写出个样儿来就不错了。千万别逼孩子写。想点儿能调动他积极性的办法吧。比如我儿子(5.5岁)要强,只要我说不写的话别的小朋友会写的比他好,他就主动去写了。
-zjoy(Joy);
2008-1-16
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小孩子要多鼓励。根据我所学到的PARENTING SKILLS(在这里EARLY YEARS CENTRE学到的),最好每天赞美要多过批评,要发现小孩子的点点滴滴的事加以赞美,每几分钟赞美一次(要求太高了)。比如一个LETTER写得好就多夸夸他。
-housewife(无为);
2008-1-16
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我家老大也是四岁半,写字也是难看得很,不过我看他班上小孩子写得也都差不多,你的孩子的老师要求是不是太高了?我儿子每天写两张纸,周六不用写,放假.你可以去一元店买些一元一个的彩色练习本,好玩一点,不会写得那么枯燥.欲速则不达,别太急了.
-calumet(calumet);
2008-1-16
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谢谢各位,这样子,我心里有底了。
-whj(whjlmx);
2008-1-17
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