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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 真搞不懂,陪读妈妈都是怎么想的呢?夫妻长期两地分居,对孩子、家庭能好吗?是真正爱孩子吗?——又知道一家人,正考虑成为陪读妈妈,到国外陪孩子读初中。
-wp1997(玲珑弦);
2008-6-8
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我觉得不好
-stepbystep(stepbystep);
2008-6-8
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they dont have choice sometimes.
-yello(奔跑于R-O之间);
2008-6-8
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我个人觉得陪读的家庭基本不可能维持好的夫妻感情.因为时间和距离是万能的.
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2008-6-8
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分居是准备离婚的前奏。
-hipacific(crystalblue);
2008-6-8
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It is understoodable. After 10+ years of marriage, most couple are tired of each other. The common love they have is for the child so they pour this love to the kid's future.
-linshell(serenity);
2008-6-8
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孩子需要父母一同教育。
-caa(Life is good.);
2008-6-9
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如果是国内有点钱的人家,其实很多女主人在国内也一样,男的有工作或是自己的生意,出差应酬,也不一定天天见面.留在国内或是来加拿大,差不多.
-newtoronto(一家三口);
2008-6-9
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真要有钱,就不会一年见不着面了,买张机就飞过去了,或是私人飞机。咱们也祈人忧天了.
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2008-6-9
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祈人忧天, absolutely, they certainly have made their own arrangements, none of other's business.
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-9
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同学,那叫杞人忧天
-sowen(昂居居);
2008-6-9
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英文没学好,中文有退步,你能看懂就行了,中文软件也不好使,连个联想成语的功能都没有,您老就别叫我的真了。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2008-6-9
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it is so easy to go back and forth nowadays, just 13 hour flight, plus all other convenience like internet, phone etc. how tough could it be?
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-9
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不管怎么说,一家人在一起的乐趣,是多少钱也买不来的,错过了,很可惜。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2008-6-9
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why 错过了? they still get together regularly, what is wrong with that?
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-9
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well, it all depends on how often they could get together. 我觉得一个月或者两个月见一次面可能能达到分开生活但是不miss 任何事情的程度。
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2008-6-9
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我最不理解的还是把孩子送会国内,让爷爷奶奶那代人养的。养孩子就这几年,那乐趣,错过了,多可惜。对孩子也是不小的抛弃。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2008-6-9
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Each family has their own unique situation, they all are adults and know how to live their lives.
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-9
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网络是个自由世界,没有指明到姓的评论又有何妨?何况中国人送孩子回国养的不少,对孩子好吗?是负责任的父母吗?舆论应该介入。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2008-6-9
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There are a lot of stuff you can not understand in this world. That doesn't mean they are all wrong.
-rememberme(Support Olympics);
2008-6-9
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没啥不理解的,就是爱钱超过小孩,有些人是很自私的. 生孩子并不疼孩子
-lotustears(甜心宝宝);
2008-6-9
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不好不好不好。
-xz2029(采姑娘的小蘑菇);
2008-6-9
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most of them are already in hard relationships. what they did is to make everyone easier. if the parents are in good relationship and kids are happy, no one will consider seperate.
-c1xwy(洪兴罩俺去战斗);
2008-6-9
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Have you done a survey already? otherwise, how could you come to that conclusion of "most of them are already in hard relationships"?
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-9
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陪读爸爸可能比较好, 象朗郎和莎拉波娃, 妈妈容易惯孩子...
-youbet(寻常巷陌);
2008-6-9
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陪读爸爸也一样面临为了孩子而牺牲夫妻感情的问题,关键是孩子还不一定能成材。
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2008-6-9
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It depends on what you want for your life. Choice being made upon giving up.
-123(Leon);
2008-6-9
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对。如果觉得夫妻感情可有可无,孩子在国内难以成材,原意为孩子牺牲自己的一切,那当然是可以分居做陪读妈妈/爸爸。
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2008-6-9
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none of your business.
-iwantcar_majia(iwantcar);
2008-6-10
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