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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / How do you deal with the kids sleeping over?女儿12岁, 这个年龄各类party都多. 常常要求在别人家sleepover. 有时在我们中国人朋友家里还可以. 但在老外家我一律拒绝. 不放心啊! 女儿纳闷, 每次都要问为什么不行. 非要我给个充分的理由不可. 本人技短, 通常所给的理由都被驳倒. 最后总是拿父母的权威说话. "说不能就是不能". 请问大家都怎么回答啊?
-12345goahead(silly);
2008-6-14
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为什么不直接把您担心的理由告诉她? 如果我女儿12岁,我也不放心她去不了解的家庭过夜.找些有关的书给她看看---会有帮助吗?
-d2008(老百姓);
2008-6-14
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We only allow them go to houses that we know the parents (I personally talked with and visited the house). We also make her agree that parents make final decision. No argument.
-hhorse(hhorse);
2008-6-14
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Tell her that home is where you suppose to sleep. In some cases allow her to stay late to finish up the group activities, but dad or mom is going to pick her up when ready. If you allow once there will be always argument in the future.
-djjk(冬瓜);
2008-6-16
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