爱孩子的话，还是别离婚的吧，孩子是弱者，离婚的悲剧中沉默的羔羊。父母离婚这一刀割在孩子幼小的心灵里，恐怕是永久的伤疤，他们背着，对将来的人生婚姻都是阴影。为人父母，要放下自己所谓的婚姻幸福（如果这个它真存在这个世上）。赵紫阳的绝唱就是，我们老了，无所谓了。作人父母通常老了，孩子才最关键，是未来，要多从孩子的幸福考虑问题。离婚通常是父母为了纠正自己年轻时候的错误错误选择（当初瞎了眼），付上了却是儿女的幸福童年，少年。我们可以看到离婚的父母多莫的自私同不公平。
-caa(Life is good.);
2008-6-18{224}(#4507994@0)
It’s hard to believe this is your view. I thought you are totally Americanized. Good to know that there is indeed some Chinese root ingrained…. (#4485869@0) (#4481671@0) (#4481610@0)
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-6-18(#4508010@0)
不矛盾的话，俺咋老了，变态了呢?
-caa(Life is good.);
2008-6-18(#4508023@0)
Did you just have your second baby? I don't think I can have another one as I am approaching 七张 :)
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-6-18(#4508031@0)
无儿无女活菩萨，多子多孙多冤家。
-caa(Life is good.);
2008-6-18(#4508046@0)
trapping in a soured relationship is absolutely not the right solution.
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-18(#4508048@0)
要努力作改善，使自己的婚姻幸福。 放弃意味着无能加失败。胡适先生学冠古今，通晓西方，但却可以跟自己的小脚包办原配白头到老，这才是本领。
-caa(Life is good.);
2008-6-18(#4508058@0)
They wish everyone else would go through the same darkness they have had in their tough lives. They simply just can not bear the fact that people generally may live a normal life. They are the chilliest.
-liz2002(總歸是秋天);
2008-6-18(#4509036@0)
经历痛苦伤害，思想言辞情绪难免偏激，负面的看法多一些。也许经过一段时间，就会变得平和。一直过着normal life 的人是幸运的，因此更要宽容理解别人。
-sophiacc();
2008-6-18(#4509155@0)
Good luck, buddy.
-bugkiller(Driver Coding);
2008-6-19(#4511016@0)