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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 有没有发现,放下身段跟孩子交流,还真不容易。晚饭时,大人们在讨论北京奥运,感叹几百万辆车offroad, 在华外国人必须回国再签证,旅游签证趋严,9岁的儿子经常看Macleans,插了一句:In Beijing, it is not a people's Olympic, it is a national Olympic.我左想想,右想想,很像教育两句,但发现头脑里一句词也没有。郁闷。其实很想说:儿子,你说得有点儿道理,但好像又不能那样说。
-nicetomeetyou(一针牛,寒锋闪剑出鞘);
2008-7-31
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无它,国人不喜欢听异见,好面子,所以奥运办得很不轻松。自己问问难道这只是一个政党的问题?是个文化的区别!
-tigerbinz(tigerbinz);
2008-7-31
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总觉得他还小,不要如此先入为主,所以憋了两分钟,我说:儿子,现在无论在哪儿办奥运,都是national Olympic, 因为恐怖分子太多了。说完了,心里直打鼓。
-nicetomeetyou(一针牛,寒锋闪剑出鞘);
2008-7-31
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ask him what is a people's Olympic, what is a national Olympic. What makes you think it iswhat makes you think it is not a people's Olympic, it is a national Olympic.
what would you like to see, and why....etc.
see how much he actually know or he just simply quote something that he is not fully understand yet. Open question is always encouraging and great strategy to know inside of kids (even big people)
-snowing(忙碌小猪);
2008-7-31
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Good suggestion ! He currently joins a reading club, reads books at home, and sends writing journals every week. His thought sometimes is very mature and he likes to talk to adults. I will follow up tomorrow.Be honest to kids, but you also need to ask them to listen to stories from all sides.
-nicetomeetyou(一针牛,寒锋闪剑出鞘);
2008-7-31
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May I know which reading club? Thanks.
-spring888(mayflower);
2008-8-2
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wow, 你家孩子懂这么多啊! 我们家孩子也9岁, 恐怕是不懂people's和national的区别
-youbet(寻常巷陌);
2008-7-31
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估计小孩子可能从别处听来的,他自己也不懂啥意思. 所谓洗脑就是这么来的.
-canadanongmin(三老四严);
2008-7-31
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告诉他国家和人民有时候是很难分开的。如果绝大多数中国人都支持这个奥运,那就说明这个奥运既是国家的也是人民的。告诉他对任何媒体不能全盘接受。给他讲讲中国历史。
-vista3(故乡的云);
2008-8-1
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