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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 该如何给小孩做工作? 有关找女朋友七年级儿子今天问我能否找女朋友, 他说他们同学之间很普遍. 小孩觉的很有面子如果有女朋友,其实就是接吻和拥抱. 我说不行. 他说亚洲家长就是这样. 我还没有找到很有说服力的理由.我觉得孩子长大了, 这个问题得解释清楚, 让他充分理解. 请大家集思广益,谢谢
-xierfan(xier);
2009-2-14
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My niece is 14. She has boyfriend, but only hang out as group dating. Like 2 or 3 couples together and only hang out in the school campus.If they want to go out, they have to plan it at least 1 month before. Or they are allowed to hang out at other's house with parents present. It is not 有面子. He could be dumped hard too. It is a part of grow up. You can't just stop. But if his grades get worse, then he has to stop hang out anymore. You can make some certain rules with him at the first place.
-coolmommy(happymommy);
2009-2-14
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you can say, yes, but you must let us know who she is (formal or informal), if we think she is ok, then you can go ahead.
-criss(criss);
2009-2-15
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Don't take it too serious. My son is just 12, he tells me that only the love and affection at his age is sincere and genuine; Afterwards, people marry for something else, like money.I believe that they know what's going on and how to play. Love, like sickness, possibly can improve immunity system.
-andy96(Micky Boy);
2009-2-15
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可以吧...设定一下可以接受的最亲密的上限,多集体活动.最理想FIRST KISS还是快到大学,或到了大学以后...娃有几位本地小朋友打JK就有GF,年年都换名字,都是说着玩,比较玩得来而已
-yihan(逸涵);
2009-2-15
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